Hype is a trip.
It can build you up, flood your IG with comments and followers and knight you a member of the chosen elite almost overnight. Hype can also create insurmountable expectations or call you overrated just as easily. Itās something Shareef OāNealāson of, yup, you guessed itāhas had to deal with his whole life.
āLike, just because of the name I have, the last name I carry, I feel like people are expecting me to do a lot of things,ā he says. āIf I donāt live up to those expectations, then Iām hyped up and overrated.ā
OK, howās this for hype: at 18 years old, the younger OāNeal just wrapped up his senior season at Santa Monicaās famed Crossroads School. With it, he collected both a California State Division II title (of which he dropped 29 and 17 in the title game) and the John R. Wooden Award for player of the year, as well as a commitment to don the blue and gold up in Westwood at UCLA next season. He also stands a towering 6-10, can rain down threes and put you on the wrong end of a very shareable dunk GIF. Oh, and heās extremely coachable.
Actually, that aināt hype; thatās just Shareef.
āShareef is amazing as a kidāthe most humble kid Iāve ever probably run across,ā says Crossroads coach Anthony Davis. āI want to probably credit that to his family. His mom, his dad, you know theyāre always here, theyāre always in his corner. You can just tell they raised a great young man. Heās always looking to get better, heās always asking questions, heās always on him teammates and being that leader.
āUCLA is getting a unicorn, a very special kid. He can do everything.ā
While his game aims to do everythingāShareef himself describes his style as unpredictableāthe kid strives to be just as undefinable off the court.
Thereās his diverseāand often individually customizedāsneaker lineup, his genuine passion for Dragon Ball Z and the little known fact that he loves to put ink to paper and draw when heās not serving up buckets or Fortnite victories. But whatever the creative outlet or on-court result, Shareef says his dad, and the entire OāNeal squad, always let him ride his own wave.
āIām not pressured to play basketball. If I wanted to put down the ball today, hang up all my shoes, he wouldnāt be mad at all,ā says Shareef about his pops. āAnd if heād ask me what else Iād want to do, Iād tell him and heād be OK with it.
āHe understands that Iām not Shaquille OāNeal. My nameās Shareef OāNeal, and Iām building a whole new name for myself. So whatever I want to do, heās up for it.ā
What the elder OāNeal and greater basketball public are also up for is all that Shareef has in front of himāespecially with college and a whole new set of expectations and opportunities rapidly approaching. It would be a handful for any incoming recruit, but for Reef, itās not about pressure.
āProbably everyone whoās heard of me, they donāt think Iām going to be as good as my dad,ā he says. āSome people are kind of believing in me. My dad, he says I was better than him when he was my age, so that kind of boosted me up a little bit. But pressure, I donāt think pressure exists anymore. I used to think it was when I was growing up, and I used to doubt myself a lot when I had a bad game cause of what people would say, but it doesnāt exist to me anymore. I know what I can do and Iāve proven myself throughout my high school career. So Iām just looking to keep proving people wrong.ā
Itās an admirableāif not completely appropriateāapproach for a player whoās probably heard every heckle, hyperbole and criticism in the book: focus on yourself, on what you can control, and let the outside periphery fall to just that. Smart kid. And for someone who just finished attending his senior prom, thatās whatās most excitingāthat Reef is just beginning to scratch the surface.
āHe hasnāt reached his max potential, and when he does,ā says Coach Davis, smiling, āitās going to be very scary.ā
That aināt hype, either. Thatās just Shareef.
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Jack Jensen is a writer and photographer living in Los Angeles. Follow him on Twitter @jensenjack.